IN FRONT OF ME SHUCKS!!!
What I needed to know is just in front of me…
I had a conversation with a friend, an old friend of mine… during the course of my conversation I ask him a simple question.. I said “what will you do if you are in my position”. I never thought I will get an answer that I already know… an answer that will slap me hard in my face… THE ANSWER.
Push myself to work… how, that’s the hardest part… a person needs motivation, a little role-play, discipline and a little fun… I have that so what’s the problem with me.
•I am motivated to work not because I need to but because I want to. I want to be free I want to do things my way, and I wanted to be the pillar of strength for my family.
•Role-play, Life is a role-play… everyday as I wake up I plan my day…what to do how will I do it and what’s the game plan. Everyday I engaged myself to role-plays I will be this and that to this person, not because I want to but because I need to in order for me to accomplish something.
•Discipline, Hmmm I guess I will have a problem with this, Not that I’m problematic, but sometimes I’m moody… oh well maybe that’s the problem here. When it comes to discipline, maybe I lack sometimes but I make sure that I exceed on other occasions.
•Fun, I am happy… with work, with my co-workers, and with my staff… I could never ask for anything else… with family and friends… yeah I admit there will be times when you cant attend to them at all times… but the make up session is phenomenal.
As we talk some more… what I have right now is not yet in my system… that’s one reason why it doesn’t matches with everything that I have… maybe now I understand… everything is clear now. On a piece of paper I have written my goals… and then I wrote my needs and my want section… and then I match everything… how? Simple …
If your needs matches with your want… it stops there
If your want didn’t match with your needs… you have to work for it
If your needs doesn’t match with your want… maybe you can adjust your want
If your want matches with your needs… BE SATISFIED.
Comfort Zones… people love’s to be in this zone. This is where a person is confident enough to be himself, the best place to achieve something, the most comfortable place a person can be…
What will happen if the challenge is gone… or you get stuck in something that you wanted before, but right now… it’s so hard for you too cope up with? Then we have a problem… there’s no more problem to deal with and that’s the problem itself… the lack of problems become a problem… weird but its true. Accept the fact that you are there, where you wanted to be in the first place and your happy and contented accept the fact that you have created your very own comfort zone… don’t burst the bubble and don’t rock the boat… you’ll never know you might end up somewhere, a place you never thought you could be in… a place that’s unknown… a place where you end up lonely.
I AM LUCKY… MASWERTE AKO… I have all this. I have a life, I’m with my friends. I have a family, and a partner who supported, who took care of me… I have everybody who I wanted to be with me every single day… DAMN IM LUCKY…
Is this the midlife crisis…? I wanted to start early living the life I dreamed off… I never thought payback would come early too… am I delusional already… burning hot with fever or something… when your doing nothing and your physical state is not on a good shape… your mind starts to work double time… YOU THINK, and then YOU FEEL… and once you’re ready again … YOU DO THINGS THE RIGHT WAY!!!
I had a conversation with a friend, an old friend of mine… during the course of my conversation I ask him a simple question.. I said “what will you do if you are in my position”. I never thought I will get an answer that I already know… an answer that will slap me hard in my face… THE ANSWER.
Push myself to work… how, that’s the hardest part… a person needs motivation, a little role-play, discipline and a little fun… I have that so what’s the problem with me.
•I am motivated to work not because I need to but because I want to. I want to be free I want to do things my way, and I wanted to be the pillar of strength for my family.
•Role-play, Life is a role-play… everyday as I wake up I plan my day…what to do how will I do it and what’s the game plan. Everyday I engaged myself to role-plays I will be this and that to this person, not because I want to but because I need to in order for me to accomplish something.
•Discipline, Hmmm I guess I will have a problem with this, Not that I’m problematic, but sometimes I’m moody… oh well maybe that’s the problem here. When it comes to discipline, maybe I lack sometimes but I make sure that I exceed on other occasions.
•Fun, I am happy… with work, with my co-workers, and with my staff… I could never ask for anything else… with family and friends… yeah I admit there will be times when you cant attend to them at all times… but the make up session is phenomenal.
As we talk some more… what I have right now is not yet in my system… that’s one reason why it doesn’t matches with everything that I have… maybe now I understand… everything is clear now. On a piece of paper I have written my goals… and then I wrote my needs and my want section… and then I match everything… how? Simple …
If your needs matches with your want… it stops there
If your want didn’t match with your needs… you have to work for it
If your needs doesn’t match with your want… maybe you can adjust your want
If your want matches with your needs… BE SATISFIED.
Comfort Zones… people love’s to be in this zone. This is where a person is confident enough to be himself, the best place to achieve something, the most comfortable place a person can be…
What will happen if the challenge is gone… or you get stuck in something that you wanted before, but right now… it’s so hard for you too cope up with? Then we have a problem… there’s no more problem to deal with and that’s the problem itself… the lack of problems become a problem… weird but its true. Accept the fact that you are there, where you wanted to be in the first place and your happy and contented accept the fact that you have created your very own comfort zone… don’t burst the bubble and don’t rock the boat… you’ll never know you might end up somewhere, a place you never thought you could be in… a place that’s unknown… a place where you end up lonely.
I AM LUCKY… MASWERTE AKO… I have all this. I have a life, I’m with my friends. I have a family, and a partner who supported, who took care of me… I have everybody who I wanted to be with me every single day… DAMN IM LUCKY…
Is this the midlife crisis…? I wanted to start early living the life I dreamed off… I never thought payback would come early too… am I delusional already… burning hot with fever or something… when your doing nothing and your physical state is not on a good shape… your mind starts to work double time… YOU THINK, and then YOU FEEL… and once you’re ready again … YOU DO THINGS THE RIGHT WAY!!!
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