Mahirap ba talagang magmahal?

Mahirap ba magmahal o mahalin ng iba? Maaring tama pero maari rin naman kontrahin ng iba. Pagmamamahal itself is an act of your choosing. Di ka naman mag mamahal pag di mo piniling mag mahal di ba? So how can people choose to love someone pero alam naman nila na sabi ng nakakarami na ito ay mahirap gawin?

Para sa akin, napakadaling mag mahal. Napakadaling mahalin at mahalin ng iba, pero ito ay humihirap pag pinapansin mo ang lebel ng pagmamahal na binibigay mo at natatangap mo.

They say loved and be loved in return, but they never said that the love you have given will be returned equally. Thats where the hurt and the pain comes in. Dun sa point na yun humihirap magmahal. 

Mataas ba ang expectations mo? Naghahanap ka ba ng mga bagay na hindi kaya ibigay ng mahal mo? Pero nun pinili mo sya mahalin lagi mo sinasabi na ibibigay mo ang lahat. Nabigay mo nga pero nag aabang ka ba ng kapalit? Maraming bagay sa mundo ang walang kapalit o katumbas.

You can love your mother but you can never surpass a mothers love for you and lets admit sooner or later you will love someone greater than your mother, someone who you will give up your life for. 

Napakadaling magmahal pero ang pagmamahalan ay madalas hindi patas. There will always be someone your future partner will love more than you. Napakasit? Ganito na lang... ang asawa mo mas mamahalin ang mga anak nyo kesa saiyo at some point of your relationship your partner will choose your offsprings more than you. 

Tama ba ang ganun? Sa ganun analogy mukhang tama pero ibahin mo ang sitwasyon tama pa rin ba? 

Ngayun ibahin natin ang sitwasyon, ang iyong iniibig eh nakakita ng isang taong mas mahal nya sayo? Masasaktan ka ba? Aba siempre oo... tatangapin mo ba? Malamang hindi pero parehong sitwasyon. Ang mahal mo may mas mahal na kesa sayo. 

The only point i have is that, its easy to love but its hard to accept that there is somebody people will loved over you. So don’t blame it on love, love will always be easy, its your choice to love but love has no limit. People are not programmed to just love  a particular set of ideas or thoughts. Love is eternal and never selfish so don’t be selfish when loving someone else.

Love like a mother... a mother will love her children more than her life but her children will choose to love another person more than her. But the mother knows that her children’s love for her may not be the same as her love for them, but somehow she accepted the fact that she will be loved like a mother is supposed to be loved... love unselfishly and by then love will be almost painless.